3 Ways to Build a Good Reputation
1. Do something notable.
Today.
If you wait until tomorrow, someone else will have done it, and your doing it won't be as notable.
Who was the second person to walk on the moon? The third?
By any measure, just breaking the earth's atmosphere is quite an accomplishment, but we give extra credit to those who impress us first.
2. Do something good.
Each day. Every day. For a lot of people.
Add value to each person you come in contact with. Don't worry about what they can do for you. Assume nothing. What can you do for them?
3. Fail.
Someday soon, if not earlier.
It's inevitable. You're going to fail. But take heart: A little failure (or even a spectacular one) can be a good thing.
Failure is a great instructor. It builds perseverance. It teaches us different ways to look at things. It necessitates developing alternative solutions.
It also brings us humility, which keeps us from being so confident in our beliefs that we can't see other perspectives. We can empathize with those who disagree because each person may, in Benjamin Franklin's words, "doubt a little of his own infallibility."
But don't give up just because you failed once. Or twice. Or three times.
Or even 6,000 times. Like Thomas Edison's successful invention of a marketable incandescent light bulb, your next try might produce the breakthrough you seek.
- Cam Beck
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